mom-in-law you better watch

this is a generation gap. although in our society  we used say that my bahu ie son's wife like a daughter,but not a daughter.this is not a new thing in all around.some times the son loves to his wife more so that becomes in tolerable to mother-in-law. hormonal changes leads to frustrations and mother used to command son;s wife .i also agree that the menopausal syndromes also reflects on her behavior and the narrow mindedness takes place.bahu also sometimes neglects to her mom due to some minute causes. in this juncture son;s role becomes very sensitive if he favors to his mother  than wife becomes violent and if he favors to his wife so called  hen pecked.this problem may be solved if both have respect to each other and mom may keep some patience and become broad minded and open hearted.in other side bahu should respect and follow the instructions may be right or wrong and be obedient to elders.