what is your relationship secret

it is a good article as well informative.you have mentioned two word privacy and secrecy.i  have passed my 30 years my married life.married life depends peace full if partner have a good sense of humor and mutual understanding.WIFE---- W for without, I for information,F for fighting E for every time means  without information fighting every time. females are more intolerable. they are always doubtful. I have only one experience of own wife. no good experience of married life.  there is no healthy discussions due to lack of knowledge's and in practical aspects she remains zero. only the basis of her own beliefs she remains always right. she has no practical knowledge of public and professional life . on the basis of some paper readings and watching T V serials she thinks herself knowledgeable.now secrecy and privacy it is not easy for every one to say every thing to disclose. in my opinion husband and wife relation depends on to respect the opinion of others. i have seen several  families in mutual understandings.being a physician and executives several decisions we have to take in secrete and self level and may be say private leads to conflicts. every walk of life we should adopt theory of relativity,to respect the opinion of others and apply the word also BHEE. IN MY LIFE ONE THEORY I HAVE APPLIED BY WHICH MEANS I SECURED PEACE IN MY LIFE.'jo tumko ho pasand wahi baat karenge, tum din yadi raat kaho hum raat kahenge. it is not cowardliness or timidness . it is a way of life